TODAY'S MUST READ

"I’d practically earned my doctorate in strip-club-going. I knew more porn acronyms than him. I watched smut on my own and never thought to review his Web history. I even enjoyed the rare strip club outing with him. But here was a line: no lap dances. I was getting married, I had found my person, I didn’t need to be OK with all things that a man, any man, could ever want. Men were no longer a generalized other, there was only this man that mattered."

-- "Why I Said No to Strippers," Tracy Clark-Flory